Ninja, you are correct on the "curse" thing. . . also applies to lefties, birthmarks and a nice long list of other stupidity. What's interesting is that many of these cultures wouldn't kill the child but "exile" them in a special way; in Japan the child was left in the town square on certain nights and the Ninja (Coga Ryu) would take them and care for them. . . the fact that you ended up with a bunch of left handed warrior that the Samurai wasn't prepared for in later years wasn't ever weighed til it was too late.
In most shamanic settings the children would be taken in by the village Wise One or that of another tribe near by.
Yes, there are those Mozart types and I do understand the difference, my comments earlier centered on those children that show the natural talent at toddler stage and the parents (or society) ruin by pushing them down a path and not allowing them to be kids. To my mind, it's child abuse but in certain cultures it's the norm.
Arouet, Craig W kind of hit on things with his reply. . . sometimes folks say things without realizing it, I'm terribly guilty of it.
When it comes to the cop-out/explanation used by skeptics; the idea that people do Cold Reading without knowing they are, I get a bit peeved in that it's both, assumption and exaggeration. I've already explained why I believe that to be the case but then, the gospel of Randi dictates that it's all Cold Reading, he refuses to deal with specifics and sadly, this tends to be a pattern of most skeptics; the generic blanket of Cold Reading.
Yes, the shotgun method of Reading -- putting enough stuff out there that some is bound to stick (a.k.a.
Sensational Mentalism) can certainly be found in the Psychic world when you are dealing with the headline chasers pushing for another book deal. This is rarely the case when you are dealing with the more typical "down to earth" type Reader, most of whom strive to be specific or at least as direct as they can. I can't speak for others, but when my gut tells me to say things that make absolutely no sense at first (especially given what the oracle itself may be suggesting) and when I express that "hunch" and it hits hard with the client, I have to call that legit and a serious hit. I'm not going to sit there and barf up something on every little twitch I get, but to paraphrase Hugh Prather "
When my entire being says ___ I have no course to take but accept ___ as the answer".
AND BEFORE IT'S STATED. . .
coincidence is mute. That is to say, said common cop-out does not apply given the scenarios in question. "Coincidence" has become one of the several "logical" fail safe terms used by intellectual folks that deal in facts
Am I the only one that sees an oxymoron in that idea? Especially when coincidence, like paradox, are both viewed as illusory and non-existent in the bulk of world culture and spiritual thinking. It's comical, such things become real to the mind of those that would paint all other things in the light of fantasy and whimsy.